Rewards

     Training a dog usually involves providing a reward when the dog conforms to the master's wishes.  Likewise, training children often includes a reward for conforming to their parent's or teacher's wishes.  These rewards can include expressions of affection, words of thanks, or compliments on good behavior and a good job.  Rewards can also include treats or special privileges.  On the other hand, withholding a reward may also provide incentive not to do the wrong thing.
    As children mature, they can be weaned away from external rewards and guided toward internal rewards of self-respect, self-satisfaction, and pride in doing the right thing.  Many of the things we do may not be recognized or fully appreciated by others.  Our reward must come from within.  Although adults will be influenced by family and society, we can accept, alter, or reject what others define as proper behavior.  We should realize that making good decisions in living a good life is it's own reward.
     Religion often offers rewards as incentive to conforming to it's definition of proper behavior.  The promise of eternal life must be the greatest of rewards for having faith.  Church services are designed to reinforce this faith.  Members of the congregation reinforce each other that their religion holds the truth and provides the correct guide to behavior.  Although focusing on heaven may provide incentive, good behavior throughout our life should be it's own reward.