Sunday, May 2, 2021

Desperation


      A state of mind caused by losing hope of reaching a goal can cause various reactions. Some people persevere and continue to work toward the goal thinking things will get better.  Perhaps they will rethink their goal and plan other ways to achieve what they need.

     Some have been known to deny what is true, even lie to themselves and create a new narrative.  Political figures have denied that an election was lost or assume that the election process was faulty.  Some states have convinced themselves that the election process needs changed, but perhaps they just will do what it takes to change the process to favor their party or suppress the opposition.  They are desperate.

     Many people around the world are trying to obtain the bare necessities to survive.  Their native countries may be at war, governed by dictators or corrupt leaders, allowing dangerous gangs to exist.  Extreme poverty, hunger, and lack of education may also cause desperation.  Sometimes, the only solution is to leave their country and find a home elsewhere.

     When we can't meet a goal no matter how hard we try, desperation can creep in.  We need to consider if what we want is what we need.  Desperation can cause us to rethink and even improve our situation, only if we are flexible and determined.