Default Setting

     A default setting on a computer is preset, installed at the factory, and used automatically unless the user chooses to alter the option.  You can enter your own setting or use the default.
     People also have default settings.  Parents begin to instill a set of beliefs and values into their child at an early age which is a natural part of good parenting.  They teach their child what they believe is true, but what they believe may be opinion and not fact.  Difficulties may occur when the child grows into a teenager and young adult and is exposed to other options.
     Many people never alter their basic beliefs.  Their default setting remains intact.  Others who investigate other options may or may not choose to change.  Parents, however, should not be surprised when their older child is able to distinguish between fact and opinion.  Don't put a guilt trip on them when they begin to form opinions which are different from yours.  As long as they are not into dangerous behaviors, let them develop into an adult who may or may not keep their default setting.