Why we believe what we believe often doesn't cross our minds. After forming beliefs about philosophy, religion, and politics, we may refuse to change our minds. Perhaps we have a strong loyalty to our parent's beliefs and a stubborn overconfidence in our own thinking. Perhaps we associate primarily with like-minded people and believe those who disagree with us are just wrong. Perhaps we only honor what confirms our beliefs. Perhaps we don't want to leave the comfort provided by our beliefs and fear the consequences of changing our mind. Correct and incorrect beliefs may be the consequence of many factors.
Be aware of why you believe. Imagine being raised with completely different parents and surrounded by a majority who don't agree with you. Giving up the comfort and rewards of a present belief may be replaced with accepting the idea that you could be wrong and that it is possible to live with the unknown.
Doubt about present beliefs usually comes before changing our mind. When we doubt the correctness of our own opinions, we may build empathy for those with different beliefs. Doubt is not a sign of weakness but can be a step toward better understanding. Questioning may add to and clarify beliefs or lead toward changing your mind.
Let your mind travel to many destinations so you can find or create a path to follow. Allow yourself to change directions or go back to your original path.
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