The more years you have lived, the more varied your experiences, the better comparisons you can make. Your mind is a living history of the many ways it was. Of course, we can read history and learn from the history of others, but appreciate what is in your memories. On the other hand, when someone older than you, perhaps generations older, relates their past, realize you are being given a gift. The perspective they are sharing is invaluable. As a relative shares their history, your own story is being expanded.
The present seems the most pertinent especially to the young. They naturally believe "their time" is the most valuable. Often the older generation may believe nothing was like the good old days. Nostalgia can paint a rosier picture than the actuality. Of course, many of their family members were still alive and life seemed simpler back then. The older generation may also feel present times are worse than ever especially regarding political matters. A broad perspective can produce positive and negative reactions.
Value your own history and graciously listen to other generations. What you know and what you learn will provide more valuable comparisons.
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