Develop your own and develop your children's conscience, that inner voice that helps us make choices that benefit ourselves and others. Teach your children why, according to you, some choices are better than others. Have them learn that other people may have reasons to disagree. We all should be aware of the variety of choices people make.
Not because your parents told you so, not because Big Father or Big Brother have handed down the laws and observe your behavior, not because you will be rewarded or punished, but develop a conscience that will promote survival, develop intellect and logic, sustain mental and physical health, plus protect nature.
A child or adult is responsible for actions and should be aware of possible consequences. Pleasing others has it's place but shouldn't be the primary reason to do or not to do. Put the past in its place and train your mind to think, analyze, and define your behavior. Understand who has made the "rules" and why they were made. Don't fill your mind with obligations that may not make sense. Be proud when your children gradually become independent thinkers. They may not agree with you, but that is their right. Let their conscience be their guide.
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