When you can make a difference, when the time is right, when you might regret it if you don't say something, speak up. Be courageous, yet courteous; have good intentions, but be prepared for criticism. Show others that you welcome their contributions and encourage them to speak up.
Value your own opinions and the opinions of others. If you want to influence others, be willing to let them influence you or at least, make you think. Listen, speak, then listen again. Add to the dialog with respect. Insults and name calling are counterproductive.
We see instances of poor communication every day. People who are overconfident in their own opinions cause more division instead of possible compromise. Thoughtless and hateful remarks are akin to bullying, intimidating others to acquiesce. Freedom of speech should encourage communication and help clarify the truth.
Compliment or critique, encourage or caution, support or correct, defend or oppose. Decide when it is best to speak up.
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