Dependence

     In many situations, dependence is necessary for survival.  Babies and children must depend on adults for physical and psychological development.  Many elderly also become dependent when they can no longer take care of themselves.  Throughout our lives, we may have to depend on others or help others who depend on us.
     As we grow towards independence, we take on the responsibilities and privileges of adulthood.  We learn to give up the carefree comforts of childhood and gain freedom, self-reliance, and control of our lives.  We still help each other, but we shouldn't expect others to support us when we should be up on our own two feet.  We shouldn't enable others to lean on us when they should strengthen their own survival skills.
     Our government, which is a beacon of independence, often puts itself in a role of enabling dependence.  When citizens can't take care of themselves, they often become dependent on various programs that provide food, housing, and etc.  These programs should give only temporary aid while encouraging these citizens toward independence.  Our government often acts as big brother around the world by aiding and supporting weaker countries.  We should be careful with this role, making sure decisions are wise, safe, and lead to democracy and independence.
     Many religions encourage believers to rely on a higher power to help solve their problems.  This heavenly parent provides all that is good.  Being dependent is part of the faith.  Believers appreciate the heavenly help and are encouraged to help others.
     No one is totally independent.  At times, we all need to rely on the help of someone or something.  We do, however, need to rely on ourselves as much as possible, instead of increasing our dependence.