When we take our first breath, we become a separate being. Even though we are dependent on our parents for many years, we assert our independence in degrees from being a toddler saying no until being a teenager yearning for adulthood. As we gain maturity, we become completely responsible for ourselves. We will keep an emotional attachment with our parents, but we are a separate being alone in our decisions and actions. We leave the nest and fly solo.
Most of us do marry, start a family, and become part of a group. We take comfort in having a parent or a mate love and care for us. Frequently, however, we realize that we must care for ourselves. As our busy responsibilities subside, we can again see that we are indeed separate.
Many go to their religion to feel loved and protected, to be part of God's family, so we no longer have to feel separate and alone. Comfort can come from feeling that a powerful and loving father is always available to help and guide us. Religious or not, we need to appreciate our physical bodies, our mental abilities, and the wonderful world around us. We need to develop inner strength and courage to face the unknown.
When we take our last breath, we do it alone even though family members may be nearby. Religion again can ease this last earthly experience especially when we believe life goes on. Some believe that we always have a co-pilot; others believe that we must fly solo.
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