Manipulation

   
     Manipulation is at work whether we are aware or unaware.  Someone wants us to agree with their way of thinking.  Perhaps the manipulator feels it is for our own good, or perhaps it will just further their own goals,
     When someone is trying to hold us back or push us forward, standing up for our own ideas is difficult.  Outside influences can persuade us to follow the crowd of our families, friends, culture, and religion.  We may be more comfortable being part of a group and less confident in forming our own unique opinions.  We seldom are encouraged to think for ourselves, to question our group or its leaders, to have the courage to face the repercussions.  Feelings of disloyalty and guilt may hamper us from believing something different.
      We should honor our parents, our spouse, and experts in their respective fields, but we should most honor our own minds, our ability to think on our own.  If you have been up close and personal with someone who has had a stroke or other brain injury, the sudden decrease in brain function is shocking.  If you have witnessed someone with dementia who is gradually losing function, the tragedy is heartbreaking.  Put great value on your ability to think and don't overvalue the thoughts of others.  Don't be a lump of clay; form your own ideas.