Carly Simon's song "Anticipation" begins: "We can never know about the days to come/ But we think about them anyway." When we anticipate a pleasant future, we may rejoice if we are fulfilled or face disappointment if we feel shortchanged. When we anticipate an unpleasant chain of events, we may be right and add to our disappointments or realize we were foolish to worry. Predicting the future is full of missteps.
The more we make realistic predictions, the less we will face unpleasant surprises. The more logical and perhaps less emotional we are, the more prepared we can be to face various outcomes. Some people believe that you may subconsciously fulfill your expectations, whether positive or negative. Your attitude and behavior may make things come to pass, a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Anticipation may increase pleasure or worry. Some people advise to hope for the best but prepare for the worst. Plan well but realize that some things are out of your control. Don't dwell too much on the days or years to come. Appreciate today.
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