Chain of Command

     For a big portion of our lives, we are links in a chain of command. Those in authority at the top have control and give orders to those below.  Parents have authority over children.  Bosses have authority over employees. The military is only as effective as its chain of command. Most religions have their hierarchy of popes, priests, pastors, and parishioners. They all claim to be under the command and control of the highest authority.
     Many people get accustomed to allowing others to have authority over their lives.  They get comfort from someone else being in charge and making the rules.  When they follow the rules, they may believe a reward is in store.  Being independent and taking responsibility to make your own decisions doesn't seem as safe as having a stronger, wiser authority figure.
     A chain only works when all the links are connected.  Some chains, unfortunately, are oppressive and restrictive.  A link who breaks away is made to feel weak, disloyal, and a danger to the perpetuation of the chain.  Sometimes, however, we need to break away to freedom. 
     Don't let others pull your chain.  Design your own chain of events.