Do/Don't

     Nature, nurture or destiny - What makes us do what we do?  
     We are born with DNA which may give us talents to develop and limitations to overcome.  Some people believe that we are "Born This Way."  Certain characteristics are ingrained which cannot be changed but should be celebrated.  Nature is a primary influence on what we do and don't do.
     Our environment, family, culture, and religion teach us what they expect us to do and not do.  Proper parenting and education help us do the right thing and have a better life.  Poor parenting and lack of  education can lead to making bad decisions and wasting potential.  Nurture is a big influence on what we do and don't do.
     Some people believe in predestination, a calling, a plan of what is meant to be from a higher power.  They put their faith into studying and following God's will.  For them, destiny has always been a factor in what they do and don't do.
     As we grow and mature, we assume the responsibility to recognize the many influences in our lives, choose what is best for us, and plan a path toward our goals.  We can give credit or blame to nature, nurture and destiny, but when it comes right down to it, we are in charge of what we do or don't do.