Tyranny of Tradition

     We accept traditions from the past often without thinking or questioning their function and value.  Traditions work when elders elevate their desires and opinions and convince the younger generation to accept the ways of the past.  Those in power may be trying to  perpetuate a religion, a value system, or a way of life, to hold on to their authority to decide what others should do.
     Many traditions may be worthy of including in our lives, and we may begin new traditions of our own with hopes that our children will adopt and continue them.  We must, however, take time to consider which traditions really serve to improve our lives and which traditions need to be changed or eliminated.  We shouldn't value the past to the point that it inhibits the development of our present and future.
     During the holidays, many people get comfort in repeating religious and family traditions.  They hear the same stories, sing the same songs, and even eat the same foods.  This often brings nostalgia and the warm and fuzzies.  We think of our childhood when our parents were alive, then when we raised our own children.  We hope that our grandchildren will always remember us and family times together.  Traditions reinforce religious beliefs and bring up memories of the past.
     We need to think about how much we encourage our children to do their own thing rather than expect them to feel obligated or guilty if they don't accept our beliefs and traditions.  Our opinions are just that, ours. We may agree with our elders and may encourage the next generation to agree with us, but we need to honor each generation to have the freedom to design their own lives.  Tyranny occurs when those in authority use their power to pressure others to do their will.